So recently i was talking to a friend who is a vanilla and my roommate who is far from vanilla, we were talking about the funny thing about some women that we had met in the past. And one thing that i had remembered is talking to a girl about a year ago or a little less; wanting a relationship with me. When we met we really hit it off. we liked everything about each other. She was very into the kink way of life and even though she wasn't into my fetish. However she did accept it was apart of me. then came the funniest comment i have ever heard from anyone: "Well i wanted you to know that any relationship that i have is Poly. But you and I relationship is a monogamous one." Okay cool we are only going to be together and not date anyone else i can handle that. Then when i asked her about it to confirm my understanding i got this: "No darling. I am not going to be monogamous in the relationship. You are. I refuse to share a man like you with anyone. Your mine and only mine."
What the Fuck? Wait so let me get this straight..... She gets to fuck anyone she would like. But i can only fuck her? What kind of dumb shit is that? Yes i couldn't believe that someone had actually suggested that to me. I Thought that was the dumbest thing i had ever heard. Why would someone agree to that? My friend and roommate broke into laughter about this. My friend said that he couldn't believe someone had the balls to say that. My roommate said well how is that suppose to work? The difficult thing in a poly relationship is feelings cause you have sex with other people and over time feelings build between you and that person. That's something i could never understand about poly relationships or open relationships how do they work if feelings can be developed for other people? As for selfish relationships like the girl said to me how does that make sense at all. Was I wrong for not going with it? What do you guys think?
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